memories and phantasms.

❝Are you hitting on me, Doctor?❞ — Jodie Foster as Clarice Starling in The Silence of the Lambs (1991) // One of my favourite films that was ever made.

a pet project roleplayer site
penned entirely by paxton.
established june 2025.

previously known as:
paramour, phantasm, addiecanary,
darkside missy, vlad, & wild hunt.

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❝doctor, our insanity is not that we see people who aren't there; it's that we ignore the ones who are.❞ — A. Gibson, When the Bough Breaks

❝I'm not a germaphobe?!❞ — Jocelin Donahue as Samantha Hughes in The House of the Devil (2009) // My Halloween comfort movie, along with The Thing.

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Lovingly, I can be condensed into the attention span of a squirrel on crack, the defense mechanism of a play-hard-to-get possum, and a list of mental aberrations as capricious as the cosmos.

carrd designed by cassiaslair. best viewed on desktop, firefox. not chrome. because firefox is the daddiest. -pax

interstellar fantasies.

ooc.

Heya there! Great to meet you. I'm Pax, 21, Austronesian, queer female (she/they), located AWST and I've been writing for way longer than I ever thought I would. I've about a decade year of experience under my belt, and cut my teeth in this roleplaying hobby on instant chat apps and forums before moving to 1x1s. My past aliases may crop up from time to time but these are old masks I have done away with, and for those who know... ya know. 💜 I have forgiven my own heart and moved on from the negative thought patterns and emotional baggage that once sapped the better part of me. Now you can call me a faceless kuwentista in the age of digital nudity. ✨I work a full-time librarian job on top of a good amount of taking care of my family, and live a pretty high-stress, active life with all my neuroses. Never uninspired, I am diagnosed with OCD, ADHD, Social Anxiety Disorder, and selective mutism and recovering from BPD, MDD and CTPSD. This does mean I can go quiet for long periods at a time. I trust that you reading this is you acknowledging that you are okay with this coming as part of the territory, as a potential roleplay partner. Because every day is a battle, yet writing and living all these lives within a safety bubble keeps my world turning! You best believe it. Roleplaying with all its flaws and marvels is one of my downtime hobbies and I absolutely adore it.All is quid pro quo. I like to spoil our storylines with aesthetics, visuals and music which know no ends. It does mean I've become a lot more picky with whom I write, so please understand that A) I appreciate those who know how hectic life can be and won't ever rush me for a reply, B) I adore those who do not solely keep me for creative writing purposes, I will be that much more engaged to write with you, and C) I keep those who stay on for writing of a lifetime, not just a seasonal fix. I am grateful to say I already have some long-lived partners with whom I envision writing even on my deathbed, so I find comfort in the fact that rare ones have to be sifted out from the rest.I talk in walls and tangents a lot because I am somehow physically more exhausted by rapid fire texts, but I will mirror your text talk. Just know my phone will be on silent, and it's nothing against you, if only for my sanity. 😂

activity.

As a Gen Z I am practically married (just feral) to my phone/gadgets, but whilst I am chronically online it does not mean I am available all the time. I'm a scatterbrained gal, who could be shitposting one moment and watching adorable possum videos the next (FYI they're all adorable, even the ones where the gremlins scream at their asses) and an Online/Idle status on Discord might just mean I'm up for shooting the shit OOC and not writing diligently for our storylines. We are all humans, not machines; so don't give me the crowd caffeine.I am pretty abysmal with letting my partners know about when my next post is coming in. That's the harsh truth. It really is just an exercise in the discipline I can muster of writing in general. It may get better over time as life is a bit hectic for me right now with my diploma journey, but if you are okay with this fluctuating frequency, all's well that ends well.

writing technicalities.

I mainly host all my writings on Discord servers that have a basic template for you to toy around with. You are automatically given admin rights because mi casa, su casa, just as the NPCs I create in our stories are yours to use. I use Tupperbox extensively for my muses and enjoy banter, text and meme-y channels as well. P.S. Haven't quite experimented with Tumblr accounts because it seems too time-consuming of an endeavour for me, but I could be convinced.

mains & exclusives.

This is an always-updating list of my beloved muses, all females, males, and non-binaries alike. They can be viewed under section Ⅵ. Exclusives mean they were created from scratch for the particular (beloved) roleplay with my writing partner, and Mains hint they are created for the purpose of suiting many plotlines. Both means I use them a lot. More asterisks mean I have high muse writing them. Anyone can be used however, once you've indicated interest in any of them to me.

muse name	gender	status
Lennox Fraser	male	exclusive
Declan Trask	male	main/exclusive
Solal Henderson	male	main/exclusive
Zachary Kingsley	male	main
Johann Kingsley	male	main
Jonah Livingston	male	exclusive
Jacqueline Talbott	female	exclusive
Joanne Cross	female.	main
Claire Forsythe	female.	main
Sacha Moore	non-binary	exclusive
Cecilia Monroe	under co.	main.
annelise laurent.	under co.	exclusive.
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writer dossier & requirements.

You can absolutely send me a DM through Discord to chat, I come with some decent humour and brownies, but friend requests are not accepted right away. I do welcome overtures of friendships that form with this hobby, but only once we've conversed for a bit more than a few weeks would I consider adding anyone to my list. I also only roleplay with people who are 18+. Please do not have the intention of roleplaying with me if you are younger than 18. Quite regularly do I incorporate an array of darker/mature themes in all my stories that I am not comfortable writing with a minor. Capiche?I am a lazy literate/novella writer who errs on the side of verisimilitude. Now, what does that mean? A self-sustaining world that is internally constant. Supernatural, fantasy, modern, slice of life, sci-fi, horror, and all else—I write on the basis of it adhering to its own surrealism and rules, something that buys you into the characters and settings. No matter how high the jeopardy, I assure you I can always make it work. So long as you let me take my time with investing in it as well. I am most engaged when writing long responses in the 500 - 2,000 word range, but do try to match your response length. In general though expect at least two decent paragraphs from me. Please please PLEASE respond with creative, literate and thoughtful writing as I would rather wait for a detailed and thought-out response than receive a rushed, badly-written one. I'm fatally allergic to one-liners.I roleplay in third person and past tense only. With the exemptions of letters and such, I am abso-freaking-lutely not comfortable if you assumed your character's PLACE in writing. They have to be in their own heads, and it's our responsibility as writers to make it seem we are assuming ourselves in their shoes. We shed their skin afterwards, not cling to it. With that said, remember that whilst I may enjoy the exhilarating fast-paced action, violence, sex, carnage and ugliness that happen in stories, I do not necessarily endorse them. Because fiction is fiction and this is a medium for us to explore those psychological structures. As a general rule of thumb we should always separate mun and muse.NSFW is welcome in my house, as long as it is part of the plot and not the sole focus. My golden plot to smut ratio is 60:40. BUT I would like ample build-up to any NSFW scenes and thorough discussion with you on your expectations writing any of the scenes beforehand. Of course there's also kinks and limits which we preface with every roleplay partner and I go through mine in section III. With regards to dark/mature themes, I have become generally okay with anything but if I feel uncomfortable, I will tell you. I do provide trigger warnings for sensitive topics.My roleplay partners are great at letting me know if they'll be away or need a break; in fact I do most of the vanishing. Sorry by the way, but absence makes the heart grow fonder? nudge nudge poke poke Alas this segues into ghosting/vanishing. Please tell me if you are bored or uninspired by our roleplay. I am more than happy to discuss any changes or begin a different roleplay! Vanishing without a trace will result in unadding and our server being placed on an archived countdown for a set amount of days before deletion. I do not mind at all waiting for responses, but do let me know if you are planning on taking a break from writing for an extended period of time. 🫶 I want to make it a softer world for you.

plotting.

Teamwork and collaboration are the bones of any writing project. I could write by myself if I wanted to, but that's boring when I can put my brain with someone else's to create an even richer world.

credits.

Everything on this page except the Carrd layout (which I heavily edited from cassialair) and music player (by glenthemes) are made by me. That includes the graphics, writings and characters, and (hopefully endearing ;w;) clumsily try-hard references. That excludes the celebrity faceclaims and other media properly credited to the respective owner unless not stated.

❝Even beasts love in some way; to sit in reverence for the fading of days, or to long for caresses, but leave skin better unkissed, so their wild hearts remain fastened to their armour. Even beasts love this way. Even beasts.*❞ — Yours trulyHats off to you since you've reached the end of this section! Please tell me your favourite food to confirm you have read and understood my rules in its entirety.

glistening abandons.

kinks & limits

There are the list of my hard yeses, hard nos and in-betweens. Writing turn-ons and squicks, if you will. You have to read this section fully if we are to establish a NSFW roleplay. I will not entertain those who fail to read this and you will be called out in a very threatening manner. (Just kidding, but ammm I?)

ooc.

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activity.

interactions.

formatting.

plotting.

credits.

mains & exclusives.

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❝Who is ever at home in oneself. Land without mercy. What if this darkness is no mirror, no scar. Beyond all urgency, I am listening.❞ — Joanna Klink, NightfieldsHats off to you since you've reached the end of this section! Please tell me your favourite food to confirm you have read and understood my rules in its entirety.

❝Il vaut mieux mourir incompris, que de passer sa vie à s'expliquer.❞ — Shakespeare

❝Ars longa, vita brevis❞ — Hippocrates

prairies of

anamnesis

a writer is a world trapped within a person.

origin.

use this section to write about your character's origin story / history, basically anything leading up to the current, present day. briefly talk about their childhood, any developmental arcs, etc.Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Nunc lobortis mattis aliquam faucibus purus in. Proin sed libero enim sed. Sit amet consectetur adipiscing elit duis tristique sollicitudin. Sed id semper risus in hendrerit. Nullam ac tortor vitae purus faucibus ornare. Id volutpat lacus laoreet non curabitur gravida arcu ac. Nunc sed id semper risus in hendrerit gravida rutrum quisque. Cursus mattis molestie a iaculis at erat pellentesque. Volutpat ac tincidunt vitae semper quis lectus nulla at. Praesent elementum facilisis leo vel.Amet cursus sit amet dictum sit amet justo donec. Mauris sit amet massa vitae tortor condimentum lacinia quis. Viverra orci sagittis eu volutpat odio facilisis mauris sit. Urna et pharetra pharetra massa massa ultricies mi quis. Ut placerat orci nulla pellentesque dignissim enim sit. Vitae nunc sed velit dignissim sodales ut eu. Et malesuada fames ac turpis egestas integer eget aliquet nibh. Sed libero enim sed faucibus turpis in eu. Elementum pulvinar etiam non quam lacus suspendisse faucibus. Nibh praesent tristique magna sit amet purus. Volutpat commodo sed egestas egestas fringilla phasellus faucibus. Laoreet id donec ultrices tincidunt arcu non. Rhoncus mattis rhoncus urna neque viverra justo nec. Netus et malesuada fames ac turpis egestas integer eget. Risus ultricies tristique nulla aliquet enim tortor at. Tempor orci dapibus ultrices in iaculis nunc sed augue. Erat velit scelerisque in dictum non. Congue nisi vitae suscipit tellus mauris a. Id interdum velit laoreet id donec ultrices tincidunt arcu non. Id ornare arcu odio ut sem nulla.

present.

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headcanon one. write out a brief fact / headcanon about your character that you would like people to know about here! could be about their skills, anything!
headcanon two. write out a brief fact / headcanon about your character that you would like people to know about here! could be about their skills, anything!
headcanon three. write out a brief fact / headcanon about your character that you would like people to know about here! could be about their skills, anything!headcanon four. write out a brief fact / headcanon about your character that you would like people to know about here! could be about their skills, anything!
headcanon five. write out a brief fact / headcanon about your character that you would like people to know about here! could be about their skills, anything!
headcanon six. write out a brief fact / headcanon about your character that you would like people to know about here! could be about their skills, anything!

i'm walkin' on.

when we were younger, we swore the world was ours. now i'm reachin' for you, feelin' like we're worlds apart.

STATS	RATING
health	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
strength	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
tenacity	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
stamina	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
intelligence	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
dexterity	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
perception	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
creativity	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
charisma	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
social skills	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
empathy	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆
confidence	★★★★★☆☆☆☆☆

abilities.

ability one. does your character have any special skills or abilities? write about it here! could be a specialization in a spell, field of study, or maybe they have unique abilities!
ability two. does your character have any special skills or abilities? write about it here! could be a specialization in a spell, field of study, or maybe they have unique abilities!
ability three. does your character have any special skills or abilities? write about it here! could be a specialization in a spell, field of study, or maybe they have unique abilities!
ability four. does your character have any special skills or abilities? write about it here! could be a specialization in a spell, field of study, or maybe they have unique abilities!
ability five. does your character have any special skills or abilities? write about it here! could be a specialization in a spell, field of study, or maybe they have unique abilities!
ability six. does your character have any special skills or abilities? write about it here! could be a specialization in a spell, field of study, or maybe they have unique abilities!

STRENGTHS	WEAKNESSES
strength here	weakness here
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physical combat.

special weapons. do they have any specialized or personalized weapons, or just one they really like?
special items. do they use any other special items? like smoke bombs, poison-coated arrows, etc.
fighting style. what's your character's fighting style like? are they melee? ranged? hybrid? how do they make their job their own?
physical strength. how would you rate their strength out of 1-10? how do they utilize their strength, or work around their lack thereof?

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skills.

first-aid. this is just an example! but maybe your character has first-aid skills. or not! rate it 1 to 10, maybe!
artistry. maybe your character is an artist on the side, too!
smooth-talker. maybe your character is really good at talking out & diffusing situations, & getting away with it.
basically anything that's not related to the other sections can go here.

people always change

Arrow Up

& we'll never be like we were before.

try to stay the same, but we're

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